American rapper Clifford Joseph Harris, Popularly known as T.I. said he usually takes his 18 years old daughter, Deyjah to a gynaecologist yearly to check whether her virginity is still intact.
The 39 years old rapper who disclosed this when he appeared on “Ladies Like Us” podcast with Nazanin Mandi and Nadia Moham, said the girl is now in her first year in college.
According to the rapper, he and his daughter have had a conversation on checking her hymen and he is very proud that she is still a virgin at 18.
How he does it
While explaining how he usually takes the girl to the gynaecologist, the rapper explained that he usually put a sticky note on the door: “Gyno. Tomorrow. 9:30” a day after her birthday party.
“So we’ll go and sit down and the doctor will come and talk and the doctor’s maintaining a high level of professionalism. He’s like, ‘Well, you know sir, I have to, in order to share information’ — I’m like, ‘Deyjah, they want you to sign this… so we can share information. Is there anything you would not want me to know?’ ‘See doc? No problem’.”
He disclosed that the doctor once explained to him that it is not only by having sex that the hymen of a virgin can be broken. He said the doctor told him that a virgin can break her hymen when she engages in tasking activities like “bike riding, athletics, horseback riding, and just other forms of athletic physical activity”.
“So I say, Look doc, she doesn’t ride no horses, she doesn’t ride no bike, she doesn’t play no sports. Just check the hymen please and give me back my results expeditiously. But I will say as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”
According to him, children want parents that are so involved in their lives and that when his daughter look back, she would be proud that he has been so involved.
No problem for boys
While noting that he doesn’t want any of his children to have sex until when the time is right, he admitted that his 15 years old son is already sexually active and he doesn’t have a problem with that.
“However, I will definitely feel different about a boy than I will about a girl. And that’s just the God’s honest truth. I don’t think there’s any father out there who’ll tell you any different”, he added.